Understanding NLP

Many ask what is NLP? In reality, what everyone wants to know is what can serve them, are the benefits that has the NLP for his life in a non-technical language NLP (neuro-linguistic programming acronym) offers techniques to achieve almost instant results for many of the problems that beset us in daily life. Today I will give you an example of how using NLP, you can affect shaped blunt and extreme education and your child’s learning. John was a quiet guy, with few lights at the intellectual level, in saying of his first masters, that are not socially integrated. While doing their studies on the importance of the stimulus in effective learning, Dr. Truman met the case of Juan. And, convinced of the hidden talent of the child, that it was a diamond in the rough, was related to him personally: she encouraged the child all the time, he said that he believed in him, that he knew that he was a special person and that he had a target very big, and, above all, he gave all his affection, something of what John had lacked throughout his life. The abilities of the boy seemed to awaken from their slumber, and in a surprising way for all (less for Dr. Truman), John was really a little genius: conducting reasoning and synthesis very complex for its age, was capable of solving problems in a third of the time than their peers, and improved dramatically, too, in its integration into the group.

All the time it was the same person. How can a radical cambiotan it be? Similar examples we can find throughout history, with geniuses like Einstein, which was considered to be retarded by their teachers. Now, very cute, but what purpose I know this in my life? you say example has many practical applications and derivations, but to not make it long, I’ll give one single: I invite you to try the following:. When you correct your son/daughter, not punish it with screaming, telling you you’re wrong (and many less with blows, that create negative associations). It is doing so with firmness and love. For example, did this which is wrong, but I know that you are a person with a big heart and not will do more with a caress on the head. Your tone of voice should convey safety of that, if you do something like this, will suffer the consequences (a penance usually effective) but are telling your unconscious that he is a good person who was wrong, who made a mistake, and, at the same time, give him your unconditional affection and confidence you need. All this, at the mental level (neurological) produces completely different effects than the negative challenge or blows. If you are interested in learning more techniques to stimulate your children’s learning, to resolve family conflicts, to modify behavior problems, fears and phobias in children or adults in the effective and definitive form, I invite you to subscribe to my course practical NLP I hope you will help! Sofia Conti original Autor and source of the article.

The Best Blessing

Alberto contact, at the end of a rich email, full of interesting links and thoughts on an associative that compete both, attached a pdf with a text that is attributed to Albert Einstein, about the crisis. I have considered it interesting and leave you here. Have a proactive labour last week of this year. We do not try that things will change if we keep doing the same thing. The crisis is the best blessing that can happen to people and countries because the crisis brings progress. Creativity is born from anguish as the day is born from the dark night. It is the crisis that is born the inventiveness, discoveries and great strategies.

He who overcomes crisis overcomes himself without being overcome. He attributed the crisis to its failures and hardships violent their own talent and respects more problems than solutions. The real crisis is the crisis of incompetence. The disadvantage of persons and countries is laziness to find exits and solutions. No crisis there challenges, without challenges life is a routine, a slow death. No crisis there are no merits. It is in the crisis emerges where the best of each, because without crisis any wind caress. Talk of crisis is to promote it, and be silent in the crisis is to exalt conformism. Instead we work hard. We finish at once with the only menacing crisis, which is the tragedy of not wanting to fight to overcome it. Manuel Velasco Carretero original author and source of the article

Universal Restaurant

The work of the universe is the give and our work the receive, and we received to the extent that we are prepared to receive. Imagine you’re at the universal restaurant and can order what you fancy you. This single restaurant serves food to carry. However they do not have containers to take home the food because they do not know that much food want to bring each person. You must then go to this restaurant with your own container and take as much food as capacity becomes the container you’ve chosen. In front of you there are delicacies without quantity limit and you’ve led a small container in which no you can win more than a tiny portion of the wealth that you have in front of you. We are the containers and we went to the universe filled with limitations that prevent us from receiving all the abundance of the universe. I can’t, I don’t, no good, I am not worth, it is impossible, I’m a loser, I am too old, it is too late, I have no knowledge, I have no luck, I don’t deserve it, I have no other way out, there are no opportunities, I’m afraid, No, me everything goes wrong, I have very bad luck, happiness does not exist, the money is only for some lucky and I’m not one of them.

What are your limitations? The universe spill their abundance without limits on all of us and each of us got what fits inside the walls of limitations that we ourselves created. We could do a dissertation on how these limitations have come to you, through the collective consciousness and individual consciousness, and however this would be a loss of time for you and for my. No matter how these limitations have come to you, the important thing is to be aware of are the limitations that are preventing you receive the abundance of the universe and that you remove them. What happened in your childhood, 20 years ago or three days ago doesn’t make any difference. Today is today and here should be your attention and your energy. That are creating today is the important thing. Only today and now have the opportunity to transform what created yesterday.

The only secret to receive the abundance of the universe is precisely to free yourself from your limitations, your fears of negative feelings that the experiences of the past have left inside you. The abundance of the universe there for all without any distinction and it is our job and responsibility learn to receive. Ask everything you want since the universe is unlimited in its abundance and perfection, removes your limitations in order to receive this abundance and appreciates every day many blessings that you have in your life.